Devotions of a High Heeled Warrior

  My husband and I have been challenged by God to work on laying down our right to be right in order to honor the other person. It makes for interesting moments when you decide to work on character issues. As soon as you feel God asking you to grow in an area and you surrender to that growth, God immediately starts challenging you in that area. When I felt challenged to cut sugar from my diet, I had never seen so many sweets randomly show up in front of me. Someone would bring a dessert to work, potlucks would unfold, or my husband would bring home treats! This makes for cranky growth. As my husband and I agreed to grow in putting others before ourselves, we immediately faced opportunities to practice this character building. Usually, it was in front of a bunch of people. Maybe we were telling a story and the details were wrong or there was a comment that didn't settle the right way. It's always harder to keep your mouth closed when you feel you are in the right. In your mind ...

  If the hearts and overwhelming usage of pink everywhere has not given it away, Valentine's Day occurred this weekend. For husbands and boyfriends around the nation, the pressure is on to display their love through creative gifts and cards. My husband rose to the occasion. I came home from work to find half a dozen individually-wrapped roses placed in a large vase on my table. My first thought was, " Did he buy out all the individual roses sold at the checkout of a gas station? " I was told that's the way they came at the store. I must say they were beautiful roses. My husband then gave me the gift of sleeping in late Valentine's Day morning, to be followed by antique and thrift store browsing. He chose this because I love a good bargain. All this is to say that, all though I loved the gifts and activities, love is more than a one day event. In a world filled with romance filling the movie and television screens, we mix up romance and love. Love is not a romanc...

  Today, my daughter and I headed towards Little Rock for her neurologist appointment tomorrow. For the first time since she was in second grade, they are taking her off all seizure medication. This is quite the miracle. At sixteen years old, we were unsure what would happen after brain surgery. When the doctor mentioned she would need a section of her brain removed, the temptation to rant to God was great. My husband and I had dedicated our adult lives to ministry. My daughter loved the Lord. Why would He allow this to happen to her? If we lived only for this earth, there would be good reason to be angry; however, this world is not what we live for. God never promised perfection or comfort on earth. He promised that to be with us when it is hard and to never leave us or forsake us. Looking back after all these years (seven and a half to be precise), God has healed my daughter. However, through the surgery and recovery, her testimony has witnessed to so many. We've seen those wit...

  My daughter was out of town for a day, so I stepped in to help care for her fur baby. Her dog is a little Australian Shepherd, who shows strong indicators of ADHD. He is a handful to walk in good conditions. It's not so much walking him, as it is being dragged after him. In snow, it's treacherous. As I stepped on my icy steps, I pictured him taking off full speed and me skiing down the slick snow while screaming behind him. After sliding around a bit, he pulled me to "the tree." It is his favorite tree where he prefers to do his business. You step with care as you enter a three foot radius of the tree. What's crazy is that he will lead you around all the yard, but always returns to the tree. It's familiar, so it's where he alwsys returns. Isn't that like us? God has a plan for our lives. So many times, it's much greater than anything we've imagined. However, letting go of control and letting God guide us is hard. The unknown holds us back fr...