What Message Are You Sending?

 

My family decided to all go for a walk together at a local walking trail. While on the trail, my oldest son was texting several people, one being a group text for his fire department. He had duty the next day, and they were going over where everyone was going to be serving. During part of the walk, I asked my son to take a photo of my husband and me together. He quickly snapped the photo and texted it to what he thought was me. You know what's coming next. He suddenly looked up with distress. I asked what had happened. He replied, "I can't believe what I just did! I just sent the picture of you and dad to my fire department group chat!" I said, "That's embarrassing, but not horrible." To which he replied, "Yes, but I put 'Love birds' on it!" Takeaway: We need to always be aware the message we may be sending to others. There's an old saying that action speaks louder than words. This is true. That's why your children find themselves doing so many things that you do, whether good or bad. If we want to spread positivity, then the message we send should be positive instead of complaining. If we want to spread love, then our message should be grace and forgiveness. My challenge to you is to evaluate the messages you send. After all, you don't want to be caught sending the wrong message! 

Have a great week high-heeled warriors!

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